I was wondering how to name this time without Scott, and I got to the conclusion we are living a Beautiful Nightmare, Beautiful because we are going through a process that will give us the right to be together forever, Nightmare because there is nothing worse than miss your beloved one.
Scott and I had received a RFE - Request for Evidence from the American Embassy, Scott forgot to answer a section on one of the forms, so they sent us back requesting us to fill it out, he has already done that and he sent this back to them yesterday, so it must take about 3 to 4 weeks to be approved (this is what a friend told me), so I am hopping they will approve and finally get me to do the visa interview, if everything works like that, our wedding will be closer than ever.
Talking about the wedding, I didn't do the things I said I would do in the last post (shame), so I will start doing it this week, I am worried about the invitations, I have to do them soon so I can send to Scott as soon as I get the visa, so he can have time to send to people, let's not forget is about 20 days to get to Scott from me, and more 5-8 days to Scott send to people.
We have decide on what to serve in the wedding, so no worries about that anymore.
I am kind of worried on how much money I have to spend because the visa process, I have to go to Rio de Janeiro for about 3 days, so I have to pay for hotel and transportation, I have to do some exams in a Hospital chosen by the Embassy, I have to pay for that too, the Visa fee, Fedex to send me the visa if approved, ticket to USA, plus everything I want to buy here for the wedding, OMGoshhhhh!!! So much money!
We haven't been having good times lately, it is just so hard to feel love being so far from each other, Scott lost his job, and the problem with the form, that delayed the process, I have been working so much and having so little time to rest, sleep, too much.
Before I go, I just want to share with you the big decision we have made, Scott received an oportunity to work for a good company, the oportunity is to start working at the end of March, Scott and I talked and decided accept the oportunity, the point is, the job is in Tri-Cities- WA, like you know we were going to live in California, so we made some research and we decided it was a good oportunity to us. So from now on, we are going to get married in California, and live in Tri-Cities.
So now, we have got more waiting to do :)
Thank you for all your support!
Beijos
Juliana Pereira
my dear friend i understand u ... n it sucks this waiting life....
ReplyDeleteu could find some ap that is going to usa so she could send the invitations for u.... i know a girl that is going to WA in jan... she is in my blog if u wanna see
about rio, see if any ap would let u stay in their house... who knows sometimes it might work n u will save money
relax because everything is going to be ok
xoxo
girl...i know what u feel now. really really!!!
ReplyDeleteI worked a whole year just to save money for the wedding and visa expenses.
my wedding was simple, but was good. Dont try to have a fancy one if later you`ll have a debt do pay. and well... i got to the states about a month ago, and its being hard to get used again. it was hard waiting in brazil, but its being even harder starting a new life here.
but we can do it! if u were an aupair, u can do anything!!!
HAHAHAH
good luck and dont worry!! everything will be ok for sure!!!